There’s a Jimmy Buffett song that he sings with Martina McBride – Trip Around The Sun. Take a listen http://video.search.yahoo.com/video/play?p=trip+around+the+sun&tnr=21&vid=5003680518045701&turl=http%3A%2F%2Fts2.mm.bing.net%2Fvideos%2Fthumbnail.aspx%3Fq%3D5003680518045701%26id%3D259e5ec7809b4273891059b4b79e5575%26bid%3DT4OL7p%252bq1mx41A%26bn%3DThumb%26url%3Dhttp%253a%252f%252fwww.youtube.com%252fwatch%253fv%253d3dV1myAW2Cs&rurl=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.youtube.com%2Fwatch%3Fv%3D3dV1myAW2Cs&sigr=11a73glsb&newfp=1&tit=Trip+Around+The+Sun+-+Martina+Mcbride+Jimmy+Buffett
My office just celebrated my birthday with cupcakes from the Cupcakerie (yum) and I can honestly say that this past year has not been a “piece of cake”. But in the words of Jimmy – “You never see it coming, but always wonder where it went – and only time will tell if it was time well spent.” Today I am wearing my “Time Well Spent” bracelet and I can honestly say that yes, the past year has been time well spent.
I started this journey talking about shopping and fashion. As the seasons changed, so did my focus and thus the focus of my blog. I spent some time last night reflecting on my year and reading some of my different 190+ blog entries – I wanted to share some of my personal favorites – not the outfits, but the personal parts of the journey that have shaped the person that I am today.
September 3, 2011 – Together We Are What We Can’t Be Alone – I had just returned from a Dropkick Murphys Show in Pittsburgh. The premise is that we can accomplish so much more together than we can alone – My favorite line from that blog “What about people? Are there people in your life that you are better with than without? With that person or people, do you feel like you can conquer the world? Are you happier, more productive and just a better person when those people are in your life? The movie line “You make me want to be a better man” is classic and fits here as well”. https://oneoutfitoneday.wordpress.com/2011/09/13/together-we-are-what-we-cant-be-alone/
December 21, 2011 – All I Want For Christmas. Everything in this entry still remains the same – what I want out of life is love, happiness and passion. What else is there? https://oneoutfitoneday.wordpress.com/2011/12/21/all-i-want-for-christmas/
December 14, 2011 – My Favorite Things. This weekend I intend to experience a few of those, including live music, good friends and alcohol. Thanks Joelle. https://oneoutfitoneday.wordpress.com/2011/12/14/my-favorite-things/
End of January, 2012 Glimpses Into Our Past – Letters from my grandpa to my grandpa. My favorite part of those letters “Got here about 6 oclock. The rate of fare has raised since I went down. It cost me including taxi and a little lunch $6.93 to get back to Columbus. If it had been many times that, it would have been a joyful trip for me. The worst part being when I had to leave you. Feb. Mar. Apr. May. June I can see in the distance, an image that will bring happiness to me. Each day will be nearer my dear, when that happy day in June is drawing near. As I look in that direction I can see in the distance the day approaching, that will bring happiness to you and I.” Thank you to the grandpa I never met for passing on your romantic genes to me.
February 24th – Letter to Me. I just re read it and I know that my future self will be all of those things. I will not fail. https://oneoutfitoneday.wordpress.com/2012/02/24/letter-to-me/
There are many more moments over the past year that are bringing tears to my eyes as I write this. The moments have been full of intense joy and immeasurable pain. There is no rhyme or reason for the past year, only the reality that is the future. I watched the movie Sabrina last night and as Audrey Hepburn is getting ready to leave Paris, she is writing her final letter home to her father. The lines are: “I have learnt so many things,
Father.Not just how to make vichyssoise or
calf’s head with sauce vinaigrette, but a much more important recipe. I have learn how to live, how to be in the world
and of the world…and not just to stand aside
and watch. And I will never, never again
run away from life, or from love, either.” Over the past year, I have learned – learning how to live alone and that standing aside and watching life pass me by is not at all the way I want to live.
Last night I did a “video montage” of my past year in outfits – kind of funny – if you have 10 minutes to kill, take a look. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A1LeRBRvg2g&feature=g-upl The songs are the important – “This’ll Be My Year” by Train and “Stronger” by Kelly Clarkson.
As I sign off of this year long journey, I look toward the future, so unsure of some things, yet so much stronger.
This year, more than any in the past, I realize that birthdays are not about gifts, not about flowers and cards, but more about the people that help you make your journey around the sun so much brighter. Cheers to you and to your personal journeys. I hope that in some way I have inspired or encouraged you and as I am today, I hope you are a better person.